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Archive for July, 2008
9 years ago…
July 31, 2008*WLS* 1st post-op visit
July 30, 2008Today we made the trek to Pensacola, for my first post-op visit (5 days post-op). Jacey was with M & AJ, so it was a quiet trip (she talks NON-STOP)…LOL!
Stepped on the scale and am down 7.6 pounds from my pre-op weight. I didn’t get too excited, because ANYONE could do that on a diet of nothing but water, broth, jello and juice, 2oz per meal….LOL! My BMI though is officially down from 41.1 to 39.8 and I am no longer morbidly obese (how I hate that term…obese) Dr. Nye checked me out and I got to get my stitches removed and replaced with steri-strips. I’ll be glad when it is all gone, since my tummy is not liking all these adhesives and itches like crazy.
I found out that I have the Lap Band AP Standard 10cc band. Not sure why I wanted to know, but I did. I also got to move to the phase 2 diet and I about kissed my surgeon! If I never see jello again, it will be too soon. Then on Sunday, I get to move to phase 3…YAY! While I want to heal properly, having a little bit of consistency in your foods is a perk you take for granted.
BTW…
- Phase 1 clear liquids – water, crystal lite, clear juice, broth, jello, sf popsicles, etc
- Phase 2 full liquids – all of the above, plus yogurt, blenderized soups, thin cream of wheat, thin grits, sf pudding, etc
- Phase 3 pureed (mushies) – all of the above, plus pretty much anything you can put in the blender (think of stage 1 baby foods)
- Phase 4 soft foods – all of the above, plus tuna, soft veggies, tender chicken, fish, scrambled eggs, etc
- Phase 5 regular foods – anything pretty much that your body will tolerate
You eat 2oz (1/4c) servings in all of these stages till 5. In phase 5, you start out with 2oz servings but will eventually get to 4oz (1/2c) servings according to my paperwork. I do need to ask my doctor about this at my next appt. I feel this booklet is TOO gastric bypass themed and always understood that the goal of the band was for you to eat till you are satisfied (not full), no specific set amount. Luckily though, the 2oz hasn’t been all that bad…I think the surgery swelling is helping with that right now.
Anyway, since all was good, I go back again next Wednesday and hopefully get to remove the steri-strips (if they haven’t fallen off themselves) and move to the phase 4 diet (fingers crossed).
*WLS* successful surgery
July 28, 2008I am home from the hospital now and finally awake and coherent. I thought I would write a bit about my experience for those that want to know. I am also going to start putting *WLS* in the subject line for those that don’t want to read about it.
After I finally managed to go to sleep, that darn alarm was going off after only about an hour and a half. If it wouldn’t have been the start of a whole new me, I probably would have thrown it across the room. We got up, threw our clothes on and grabbed our bags. Pensacola is an hour/hour and fifteen from our house and I had a show time of 5:30am for a 7:30am surgery (July 25th, Friday). The trip was uneventful, unless you count me driving Bryan crazy, still going back and forth about making the right decision.
Once we got to the hospital, they got me all checked in; started an IV, heparin shot, some stomach acid med, those utterly sexy TED stockings and air compression leggings. I actually didn’t have to stay in pre-op very long, less than a hour if I remember correctly. Then they came to get me and take me to the operating room holding point of sorts. At this point I had to say goodbye to Bryan and he headed to the waiting room. I sat there bored, for what seemed like forever. While I was originally scheduled to be the first surgery for Dr. Nye, for some reason he had to go into surgery before me and was running behind. Don’t get me wrong, I want the surgeon to take as MUCH time as necessary to do a good job, but all that silence by myself started me to thinking again. I actually shed a few tears, thinking about everything that could possibly go wrong and Bryan and Jacey having to make it without me. Did I say good enough goodbyes? Luckily that didn’t last long and the anesthesiologist came by to talk to me, tell me what was going to happen and see if I had any questions. Then Dr. Nye came in to see me and they wheeled me into the OR at about 10am.
Bright, white and blinding. They got me moved over to the OR table, asked me what my tattoo meant and then where I wanted to go for vacation. All I remember is saying Paris and then waking up in recovery, groggy and with a sore throat from the tube. I got my first dose of pain meds and then they called down to the waiting room to tell Bryan where to head. They wheeled me to my room, where Bryan was waiting on me. All of this by 12pm-ish.
The rest of my stay was uneventful. I needed pain meds about every 5-6 hours, battled a bit of nausea and tried to walk when I could. Two nightmare heparin shots, one blood draw and two nasty jello/broth trays, Dr. Nye came in to see me and told me I could go home…YAY! I was out of there a little before 12pm on Saturday (July 26th, Saturday).
Since I’ve been home, I have slept a lot, discovered that I am allergic to lortab and could stand to never see jello again. The good thing I, I had my last dose of pain meds last night and am feeling pretty good. I have my follow up Wednesday, so we’ll see then how well I have been doing.
Some people ask, with all the pain, discomfort, etc would I do it again? Absolutely, I know this is my chance at a healthier, longer life. Who wouldn’t want that?!
Grateful Friday
July 25, 2008Posting from the hospital, please excuse any spelling/grammar mistakes as I am still really groggy.
1. The surgery went well and my pain is not as bad as I expected.
2. The hospital actually has wifi after me being told it didn’t.
3. A week off from work.
4. Paula and Randa were able to spend a few days with us this week…I don’t get to see her nearly enough.
5. Prayer
yes, I am alive…
July 25, 2008I didn’t realize that I hadn’t posted since last Friday…goodness, where does the time go?!
Things have been crazy here between work and getting ready for my surgery. We also had my sis Paula and her munchkin, Randa for a few days which was a blast.
And the surgery, well, it is in 6 hours and 30 minutes. Yes, I am still up…can’t sleep. I hadn’t been nervous about it until Wednesday night. I guess staying busy did/does have its perks. Now, everything is ready and I have time to mull over if I am still making the right decision. I know deep inside that I am, but there is always that doubt when you are facing major surgery.
For those that hadn’t been privy to details about the surgery, I am having lap band surgery. I have battled my weight for years now, to no avail and with my current health situation, I simply don’t have the time to keep battling it. My oncologist and I both feel that this is the right choice. It’s not going to be easy, lap band is NOT a quick fix but, I am willing to do whatever it takes to make sure I see my little girl graduate HS.
I had agonized over even posting about it, but finally decided that if I can help one person with my experience, it is worth it. Some people will choose to be mean and/or speak before they think. I can say I have heard it all by now and will delete any comments that are not following the golden rule. I am doing what we feel is best for me, my health and my family. Frankly, that is all that matters.
So, pray for me…6 hours and 15 more minutes!



